Some male egos are so fragile that the smallest request is met with defensiveness because they see themselves as victims and the world as their attackers *EYEROLL* to the point where it's like they can't actually hear you at all and likely never will.
He assumes every word has ill intentions, and has no sense of humor, insight, or intuition, so there's so little hope of healthy two-way communication.
It's best to remain very distant from this kind of person because if they haven't figured it out by now, chances are they won't.
This person complains of loneliness because none of his friends want to hang out with him anymore. Yet he lacks the self awareness to understand the connection.
Aren't men fun...
I really dodged a bullet with this one. I'm very grateful not to have to put up with this on a daily basis anymore. Man, that was so much more exhausting.
Seems like the more distant I become with men in general, the smoother my life goes, and the more my health, outlook, and energy level improves. Like magic. It's no coincidence my life thrives in the company of women. There's no benefit to having men in my life, beyond financial considerations or the occasional favor. And it's kinda not even worth that.
Well, I guess there's no sense in my complaining when the solution is obvious.
I basically don't date males anymore, I just let my exes do my dishes once in awhile and thank them for helping out. I don't give them any of myself anymore because it's a waste of everyone's time when I'm just fresh out of interest.
2:05 p.m. - 2019-03-20