I saw a woman talking about her fiance, explaining how she woke up crying with anxiety in the middle of the night from stress about a big party with her fiance's family, and of course he didn't understand her feelings at all. And she's still going to marry this man. Girl. I already saw several other red flags but she just... Okay.
It reminds me of that friend who was super excited to be marrying someone who she wrote VERY lengthy romantic vows for, and when I asked to see what he wrote for her, she said he hadn't written anything. Whoops!
*pretends to be shocked*
And these men are probably way better than the ones in my life. And even I am like... but why would you lock yourself down like that, except perhaps to get other men to leave you alone, which is pretty extreme, but something tells me that's not why these women want so badly to be owned.
Girl, read the stats. Every study ever confirms that marriage is great -- for the man. For women, the opposite is true.
Sigh. Like moths to a flame.
5:54 p.m. - 2020-10-12